# Get Your Guy | Get Your Guy Coaching


## Posts

- [Don’t Be A Nice Girl in Dating!](https://getyourguycoaching.com/dont-be-a-nice-girl-in-dating/): Don’t Be A Nice Girl in Dating!  Some people say that men like toxic women and that they get bored with nice women, and they go look for the toxic women. That is partly right. Like, nice girls are boring when it comes to dating, but you don’t have to be toxic to get your guy. You actually can be kind. Here’s the thing. Men don’t like toxic women, just like you don’t like assholes.  Our job is to get out of that nice girl persona, which many of you have been raised to be in. If you’re a church […]
- [What is Your Flirting Style?](https://getyourguycoaching.com/what-is-your-flirting-style/): What is Your Flirting Style?  So many people come to me and they’re like, I don’t know how to date, I don’t know how to flirt, and I’m like Girl, that’s ridiculous! Everyone knows how to flirt. Now, maybe you’re not flirting overtly, but everyone knows how to flirt, and I’m gonna give you the information for you to figure out exactly what your flirting style is. I want to let you know that there are three ways to flirt, just like there are three ways to connect. Physically, intellectually, and emotionally.  There’s Physical – She’s giving you eyes, she’s […]
- [Single Black Women - Non-Black Men Are Checking For Youuu!!!!](https://getyourguycoaching.com/single-black-women-non-black-men-are-checking-for-youuu/): Single Black Women – Non-Black Men Are Checking For Youuu!!!! Hey girl, I have a special message for you. These non black men are checking for you! They’re checking for you. White, Hispanic, Indian. Uh, East Asian, Middle Eastern, they’re all checking for you. And I know you might think that they’re not, but they are. Sometimes we think that just because they weren’t checking for us in high school or college, that they’re not checking for us now. They are checking for you. So, what I want you to do is when you see them, when you’re engaging with […]
- [How to Date as a Plus-Sized Woman](https://getyourguycoaching.com/how-to-date-as-a-plus-sized-woman/): How to Date as a Plus-Sized Woman Hey girl, I get a lot of questions as a dating coach about how to date as a plus-sized woman. And I gotta tell you, it’s pretty much the same way that any other-sized woman would date, except for two major things that I just want to keep you focused on so that you can keep yourself safe while dating. So the first thing that I want to offer to you is that I want to make sure that if a guy is talking about your body at all before the first date, […]
- [Top Online Dating Mistakes I See](https://getyourguycoaching.com/top-online-dating-mistakes-i-see/): Top Online Dating Mistakes I See Do you want to know some of the top online dating profile mistakes that I see as someone who has seen thousands of online dating profiles, both as a participant but also as a dating coach? This is one of the first things I do with all of my clients. We actually revise and transform their dating profiles and do multiple editing drafts to make sure that it’s exactly perfect. Okay, so the first thing that I see a lot is that we are telling and we are not showing. What does that mean? […]
- [How Going For Your Type Can Hurt You](https://getyourguycoaching.com/how-going-for-your-type-can-hurt-you/): How Going For Your Type Can Hurt You So I want to talk about how going for your type is actually hurting you in your dating and in your love life. And I know that sounds really crazy, but recently I read research about how your type is actually based on the archetype that has given you the most trauma. Now that is a little bit scary for me because I’m with a white man now, but I digress. =) Here’s the danger of actually focusing on your type. When you find someone that is your type and he checks […]
- [Why You've Been Called Intimidating in Dating](https://getyourguycoaching.com/why-youve-been-called-intimidating-in-dating/): Why You’ve Been Called Intimidating in Dating Hey girl, have you ever been called intimidating when you were talking to a guy or dating? Well, I want to let you know that when they call you intimidating, it’s not that you’re actually intimidating. It’s that they feel like you are judgmental. And when I’m talking about judgmental, I’m talking about you making judgments about not just them, but even things outside of your interaction with these men (even making a stank face).   When you are coming off as judgmental, it is not going to make him feel safe to […]
- [How Do Women Play Themselves in Dating](https://getyourguycoaching.com/how-do-women-play-themselves-in-dating/): How Do Women Play Themselves in Dating  Do you want to know how women often play themselves in dating? Well, here’s what I know: if you’re a high-achieving woman, then you are gonna try to make things happen! You’re gonna be dating a lot, and you’re thinking, “I’m dating a lot. I’m winning. I’m doing it.”  No, dating a lot is actually the wrong way of thinking about this. I like you to think about dating in a Quality over Quantity type of way, but so many of you are dating a lot of guys when most of the guys […]

## Pages

- [Dating Archetype Quiz](https://getyourguycoaching.com/dating-archetype-quiz/): Which Dating Girl Are You?   Girl, Get Your Guy!  ·  A Dating Fairy Godbrother Quiz Question 1 of 10 ← Back Pick the one that feels most like you Your Result Is Ready Where should we send your playbook? Enter your first name and email to unlock your Dating Archetype result. Reveal My Results → No spam. Unsubscribe anytime. Based on the book Girl, Get Your Guy! by Anwar White · ~2M women coached · 80% success rate
- [Book Offer](https://getyourguycoaching.com/book-offer/): You’ve been dating without a strategy. GIRL, GET YOUR GUY! Date With Strategy and Get the Love You Deserve For fifteen years, I’ve watched brilliant, accomplished women do everything right in every area of their lives — and then walk into dating with no plan at all. Hoping. Waiting. Settling. Wondering what’s wrong with them. Nothing is wrong with you. You just never got the rules. Nobody handed them to you. So I wrote them down. Pre-Order Now! Preorder today and get instant access to bonuses worth more than the book itself. Every bonus disappears January 31. Why preorder instead […]
- [Which Dating Girl Are You?](https://getyourguycoaching.com/which-dating-girl-are-you/): You’re not too much. You just have a pattern. There are four kinds of women at the brunch table—and each one keeps getting stuck in love for a different reason. In this 2-minute quiz, you’ll discover which one you are, the hidden wound beneath it, and the one shift that can help you finally break the cycle. Specifically, you’ll discover: Your dating archetype — Nice, Independent, Cautious, or Perfect The core wound quietly running your love life The one shift that breaks the cycle Start the Qiuz 10 questions · ~2 minutes · No wrong answers
- [Get Your Guy Club Program](https://getyourguycoaching.com/get-your-guy-club-program/): The Dating Program That Has Helped Thousands of Women Find Love Girl, you don’t need another dating app. You need a dating strategy that actually works. The Get Your Guy Club is Coach Anwar’s signature dating program designed to help successful women stop guessing, stop settling, and start dating with confidence. Apply Now! 50% Of Club clients enter committed relationships 1-2 Engagements per month from the GYG Community 3000+ Women coached over 16+ years As Seen in New York Magazine · Ebony · Washington Post · Business Insider · Rolling Stone · Essence · CNBC · BBC · BuzzFeed Girl, […]
- [Get Your Guy VIP Program](https://getyourguycoaching.com/get-your-guy-vip-program/): The Most Intensive Coaching Experience Coach Anwar Offers! GIRL, YOU DON’T NEED MORE TIME. YOU NEED THE RIGHT DATING STRATEGY, AND SOMEONE IN YOUR CORNER EVERY SINGLE DAY.  Become the woman who knows exactly what she’s doing. Apply Now! 80% Of VIP clients enter committed relationships 1-2 Engagements per month from the GYG Community 3000+ Women coached over 16+ years As Seen in New York Magazine · Ebony · Washington Post · Business Insider · Rolling Stone · Essence · CNBC · BBC · BuzzFeed The VIP Program is for the woman who: Is done with situationships, almost-relationships, and men […]
- [Book](https://getyourguycoaching.com/book/): February 2, 2027  ·  Now Available for Preorder Girl,Get YourGuy! Date with Strategy and Get the Love That You Deserve You’re not undateable. You’re just playing a game nobody ever taught you the rules to. Preorder Now Join the Launch List This Book is For You She’s doing everything right.And still going home alone. This book was written for the woman who is smart, successful, and genuinely ready — and still can’t figure out why love keeps not working. If any of this sounds familiar, keep reading. 01 The Scarcity Mindset Deep down, you wonder if there are enough good […]
- [Online Consultation Page VIP](https://getyourguycoaching.com/online-consultation-2-2/): Thank You For Applying for a Free Consultation Checkout Our Free Consultation Video Book A Decision Call if you have questions about the GYG Club or want to join the VIP program! Book A Decision Call (Only If You Have Watched The Video) Ready to join the GYG Club? Join the GYG VIP Now!
- [Meet The Coaches](https://getyourguycoaching.com/meet-the-coaches/): Meet Our Coaches Coach Anwar White Certified Dating & Relationship CoachKnown as the Dating Fairy Godbrother, Coach Anwar has over 15 years of experience helping Black and Brown women date with strategy, raise their standards, and get into the best relationships of their lives. His proven frameworks have guided thousands from dating confusion to confident, committed love. Coach Shoya is a life, dating, and relationship coach who has been guiding women toward clarity, confidence, and deep transformation since 2018. As Head Coach at Get Your Guy Coaching, she brings a unique blend of warmth, directness, and actionable insight to every session. […]
- [Join My Free Newsletter](https://getyourguycoaching.com/join-my-free-newsletter/): Join My Free Newsletter Join Coach Anwar’s Dating Tea mailing list
- [Thank You For Applying](https://getyourguycoaching.com/online-consultation/): Thank You For Applying for a Free Consultation Checkout Our Free Consultation Video Book A Decision Call if you have questions about the GYG Club or want to join the VIP program! Book A Decision Call (Only If You Have Watched The Video) Ready to join the GYG Club? Join the GYG Club Now!
- [GYG Free Training](https://getyourguycoaching.com/gyg-free-training/): GYG Free Training Welcome to GYG’s Free Training! Book A Free Consultation
- [Anwar In Media](https://getyourguycoaching.com/anwar-in-media/): Anwar In Media Articles Podcast & TV Interviews Blog Conference Blog Don’t Be A Nice Girl in Dating! Don’t Be A Nice Girl in Dating!  Some people say that men like toxic women and that they get bored with nice women, and they go look for the toxic women. That is partly right. Like, nice girls are boring when it comes to dating, but you don’t have to be toxic to get your guy. You actually can be kind. Here’s the thing. Men don’t like toxic women, just like you don’t like assholes.  Our job is to get out of […]
- [Thank You](https://getyourguycoaching.com/thankyou/): Thank You For Your Application We appreciate you taking the time to express your interest. Please check your email for the next steps. Meanwhile, here are a few Get Your Guy training videos for you:
- [Work With Me](https://getyourguycoaching.com/work-with-me/): Work With Me Girl, there are plenty of ways to work with me Dating Strategy Starter The Get Your Guy Full Course (50+ hours) Get Your Guy Club Get Your Guy VIP Program Get Your Ring Program Check them out below to learn more. For my coaching programs, you will need to book a consultation with me to see if it is a good fit! $149 Dating Strategy Starter Includes: How to Become the CEO of your Love Life My Online Dating Strategy What To Do On Each Date How to Talk with Men How to Meet Men IRL Learn […]
- [Apply for Free Consultation](https://getyourguycoaching.com/apply/): Please Apply for Your Free ‘Get Your Guy’ Consultation Below Please Apply for Your Free ‘Get Your Guy’ Consultation Below  IMPORTANT NOTE: Once you’ve completed this application form, please proceed to the next page to watch the consultation video and book your consultation call slot. If you don’t receive an email with your next steps within 5–10 minutes after submitting your application, please check your Spam folder and your Promotions tab. Get Your Guy Coaching Application
- [GYG Podcast](https://getyourguycoaching.com/gyg-podcast/): GYG Podcast Anwar White Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast Welcome to the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast. My name is Anwar White, but you can just call me your own personal dating and relationship coach! Each week you’ll hear actionable advice, tips, and strategies that you can implement in your own love life. I’m talking about healing your heart, dating effectively, and understanding men, so that you can, you guessed it, get your guy! Are you ready to level-up your love life?
- [GYG Adore Tour](https://getyourguycoaching.com/gyg-adore-tour/): Get Your Guy Adore Tours The ADORE Tour: Where Single Black Women Travel, Flirt & Feel Celebrated Imagine this…You, sipping wine in a Parisian café as a charming local leans in to compliment your smile. You, dancing under the stars in Istanbul, turning heads without even trying. You, strolling through Rome, feeling the magnetic pull of attraction— because this time, the adventure is about YOU being adored. Welcome to ADORE: luxury travel experiences designed for single Black women who are ready to: Flirt freely in cities where men know how to cherish a woman Explore confidently alongside a curated group […]
- [Invite Me To Speak](https://getyourguycoaching.com/invite-me-to-speak/): Want Me to Speak at Your Event Speaking Engagement Information Dating Coach Anwar Speak with a variety of groups from small fireside chats to networking events to conventions. Speaking Topics Black Women Dating Vulnerability Dating with Boundaries Healing Inner Child Wounds Dating Strategy and Statistics Has spoken at organizations such as: Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. McMaster-Carr Culture Con Collective Virtual Keynote Speaker 1-hr (Virtual) $3500 Coach Anwar White delivers a high-energy, structured keynote built to move your virtual audience from passive listeners to inspired action-takers. Drawing on years of coaching experience, he unpacks the mindset shifts, communication patterns, and […]
- [Program and Courses](https://getyourguycoaching.com/program-and-courses/)
- [Testimonials](https://getyourguycoaching.com/testimonials/): Hear From Just Some Of My Past Clients… Listen to my Clients describe their GYG Experience Real stories from clients who’ve gained clarity and confidence through personalized video coaching with Coach Anwar. See how these sessions helped them take control of their love lives. https://youtube.com/shorts/w3LK81IC27Ahttps://youtube.com/shorts/OE1rPg80_J4https://youtu.be/trUVl0o_ibkhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YLHXTOa54G4https://youtube.com/shorts/RTQi4SpxqoI?feature=sharehttps://youtube.com/shorts/YyQ7nyW4e70?feature=sharehttps://youtube.com/shorts/PQE2qz7Y1k8?feature=sharehttps://youtube.com/shorts/SSbjARnU8OM?feature=sharehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wu9I6P2dhrEhttps://youtu.be/rPAdUVAwIHI?si=iRSP6qeyhGxOiUOFhttps://youtu.be/qG1Ud50Ixv0?si=37KIU31v0jND5kTVhttps://youtu.be/RBOq2I_JLFY?si=njLRggRtmggOBeC0https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XwDTfvnDxvw&list=PLr8r3i06pmgXt2ZLmul9mrIM_9SakjLpr&index=12https://youtu.be/Qv4GX26fOG4?si=dLlAkIhXgE-c2jz8https://youtu.be/bOKOID5eKrs?si=NvUfgvI32WDyzHubhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s4aDvql1tL4&list=PLr8r3i06pmgXt2ZLmul9mrIM_9SakjLpr&index=11https://youtu.be/EmLmBldL_SM?si=1XHEfe_8ICeVNH-Mhttps://youtu.be/hy-OMY5eCsM?si=wHIfOJvdPYR1QHOnhttps://youtu.be/PMhI2VtD8nI?si=IaNceJ9KmYiys59Yhttps://youtu.be/4XEZtfGTu_o?si=HtmrI0-v1zyIZe6Khttps://youtu.be/hy-OMY5eCsM?si=wHIfOJvdPYR1QHOn Podcast TestimoniesClients GYG Journey Experience Real stories from clients who’ve gained clarity and confidence through personalized video coaching with Coach Anwar and his team. https://youtu.be/LIiiR7gvnl8https://youtu.be/DG0CkC8cVbshttps://youtu.be/FrHuqCq9ZBMhttps://youtu.be/rWafZIO-Vt4https://youtu.be/F_5oNNsheHkhttps://youtu.be/IhrPopgX-Ushttps://youtu.be/anlF9SRq2F8https://youtu.be/A2Jx4Nz2UQYhttps://youtu.be/HumjRazKNLQhttps://youtu.be/45F1VSqk7kMhttps://youtu.be/-QZd7QgWQ38https://youtu.be/fanFJuttkpghttps://youtu.be/st30r1-KijY Kara New York The money spent was 100% worth it… I was a 32-year-old woman living in New York City watching my friends one-by-one meet great guys, get engaged and […]
- [Home](https://getyourguycoaching.com/): Someone’s checking for you Dating Coach Anwar is Ready to Help You Get Your Guy! Girl!!!! What is your dating strategy? Many women struggle with dating because they don’t have a clear strategy. I have developed a proprietary dating strategy that helps my clients consistently attract high-quality men—that’s the exterior work! But the real magic happens when we do the inner work to heal inner wounds, lean into feminine energy, and set boundaries without guilt! Ready to attract AND keep the love you deserve? Book A Free Consultation 4k+ Happy Clients 4k+ Happy Clients Relationships 0 + Marriages 0 + […]


[comment]: # (Generated by Hostinger Tools Plugin)