Thank you!! 🙂 I’ve got a lot 😂
1. learning to be secure enough in myself to know I would be okay no matter the outcome with any man. I had multiple “false starts” but I think it was critical I experienced those to see every time (a) I survived and (b) there were more high quality men that came along down the line. Abundance vs scarcity mindset
2. 1 on 1’s with Anwar—I felt really seen by Anwar in this sessions and he often would tell me something I needed to hear/an uncomfortable truth that led to the most internal growth.
3. Pacing—definitely had my ebbs and flows of feeling defeated vs feeling energized. Taking breaks when I needed them and then getting back out there helped make dating sustainable long term.
4. Realizing that (the right) men respond positively to boundaries
5. Vulnerability took me a minute to understand but with time I really grasped it as expressing your feelings, whatever they are, and expressing them with regularity. I really feel like this is the superpower that bonds us to men, and other people in our life. This also helped me leaps and bounds with certain family members.
So thankful for this amazing group of women and the encouragement you bring each other. Thank you Anwar and Shoya for really helping me do the inner work!!