Ive always felt like I didn’t have a voice when it came to dating. I felt like I was at the whim of these men. I also struggled with being vulnerable after a very rough breakup with the father of my son. This program taught me how to be vulnerable in a way that makes me feel empowered and safe. How to communicate with men in a way they understand and how to gently reinforce my boundaries. I feel like for once I’m actually putting myself first. This program gave me the tools to feel more confident in dating and selecting better men. Understanding how to evaluate dates, conversations, and behaviors is so important. I feel reborn almost. And I found a special person along the way. Things I keep in mind… you can never say the wrong thing to the right person and to reflect on how things made me feel not just my opinion. Thank you Anwar and Shoya. ❤️

my biggest was that with patience and sticking to your boundaries and being open to a different positive experiences you can meet someone who is wonderful and thoughtful. I relearned to trust my gut and that boundaries are a must.

the lessons in boundaries and vulnerability were LOUD loud! Everyone is right it’s more than about getting the guy…you do some major inner work in here! That is the only reason I got as far as I did and will be the foundation in how I show up in my relationship going forward! ❤️🥰

some of my my biggest takeaways are to trust the process. Knowing and setting your boundaries is key. The inner work on familial relationships was a huge breakthrough for me. The biggest single takeaway for me is knowing my relationship needs. It was critical for me, before the program I was dating without truly knowing what I needed.

1 practicing banter everywhere at the grocery store, online etc to get more comfortable 2. Boundaries is key. The right guy will respect your boundaries even if they don’t understand why. 3. Understanding that GYG is not really about getting the guy(it’s an added bonus) but practicing putting yourself first, communicating your feelings, and being in your feminine energy are lessons that I know will help in various aspects of my life

key takeaways on getting into this relationship was talking my shit and speaking up about my boundaries and preferences each and every time – specifically not just physical safety boundaries which came easy to me in the program – but being able to expand that to all of my boundaries and preferences and letting my partner show up for me again and again and again in the way I preferred. Before I had a bad habit of being “cute and mute” which led me to being disappointed often by those who couldn’t read my mind! not anymore! Thank you Anwar and Shoya!

that my guy would likely not be what I envisioned (my vision board still has a pic of Marvin Winans).
The relationship needs and deadly dating patterns assessments were critical because it helped me understand why I was dating the way I was, why it wasn’t working and what needs my guy would need to meet.
Also, the inner work that we do is so important because it readies you for your partner.

are to trust the process. Knowing and setting your boundaries is key. The inner work on familial relationships was a huge breakthrough for me. The biggest single takeaway for me is knowing my relationship needs. It was critical for me, before the program I was dating without truly knowing what I needed.

Hi Coach, I had a lot of big takeaways:
1) trust the process! The coaches are right that there is a way this thing is supposed to flow and past medalists fell off after some time. When the coaches say BOL, talk through it with them but BOL. You want to see consistency from these men.
2) Vulnerability and Boundaries are key!! I finally got to a point in this program where I incorporated it every day with everything. I’d get up and say who’s getting my boundary today and I used my emotion wheel everyday. I made that a habit before I met my guy.
3) Banter is ESSENTIAL! Coach Anwar, when you did the class on banter, it brought out my playful side and really changed the potential HR pitfall that I could have easily fallen into. And it really builds chemistry and attraction.
4) Remain open! I know a lot of us have our types but cross examine what you think your type is. It’s probably based on something that hasn’t been and won’t serve you. I had to keep in mind that this is for fun and if I’m not enjoying it, then I move on.
5) You are and have always been a queen! Queens don’t perform and don’t subscribe to scarcity mindset. This program will get you there. See #1 above.
Thank you Coaches and GYG ladies for your support!

for me the biggest takeaway is that I had to do the work on me before I could get guy. There was a couple of months where my professional life was in an upheaval and I needed to work through that and I did with support from this program .
When I hadn’t found my guy yet, I was so happy for my sisters who had found their guy but found myself wondering when it would be my time. I really had to focus on doing the work and commit to making myself better. We all have the journey we’re supposed to have….

I’d say my biggest takeaways were the importance of boundaries, vulnerability, being able to identify and voice your needs and talk yo ish! lol. I’m still working on all 4 but I’m a lot farther along than when I started.
Thank you for the support along the way! 😁