definitely that I can approach dating from a more empowered place. From BOLs to stating my preferences, to having and staying true to my boundaries, I get to chose versus just being chosen. The funnel also helped immensely with weeding out people who didn’t respect my boundaries.

This program has been transformative for my self-discovery journey! Investing in yourself can truly open unexpected doors. The biggest takeaway for me has been the power of self-investment. Through this program, I learned to prioritize self-care, set healthy boundaries, and embrace my identity.Another key lesson is the importance of staying curious. Curiosity allows me to approach life with an open mind and a willingness to learn and grow. It helps me connect with others on a deeper level by fostering empathy and understanding. I’m so grateful for this program. The journey of self-discovery is never-ending, and I’m excited to see what new things I learn about myself and the world around me!

my biggest takeaway was I finally learned how to use my voice and set boundaries. When I had problems or issues, I would do so in ways that was demeaning not realizing that I was just in a hyper independent/survival mode, not actually living. I had a voice but I was using it all wrong. I had to sit with myself and get REAL! With all the therapy and tools that I’ve learned from this program, I had to do some rethinking, relearning, and reparenting. There were traumas and triggers holding me back and once I realized that I was sitting in victim mentality and that I should see myself as a survivor, it was like scales fell off my eyes. My guy is everything that I’ve been praying for and what I wrote down. I also realized that the guy that I thought was my type was my downfall. He’s nothing like what I go for but it was his energy, his kindness, his patience with me, how he gives me space to talk and listens to me, I’ve learned new things about me and most important, how I feel completely safe, vulnerable, and comfortable with him! For so long I’ve operated in my masculine and just micromanaged all of my relationships. He has truly given me space to be feminine which no one in my dating life has ever given me that. I can be vulnerable and set boundaries and he’s on the same page. I can’t wait to share everything with him!🥰😍♥️

for me the biggest takeaway is that I had to do the work on me before I could get guy. There was a couple of months where my professional life was in an upheaval and I needed to work through that and I did with support from this program .
When I hadn’t found my guy yet, I was so happy for my sisters who had found their guy but found myself wondering when it would be my time. I really had to focus on doing the work and commit to making myself better. We all have the journey we’re supposed to have….

Ive always felt like I didn’t have a voice when it came to dating. I felt like I was at the whim of these men. I also struggled with being vulnerable after a very rough breakup with the father of my son. This program taught me how to be vulnerable in a way that makes me feel empowered and safe. How to communicate with men in a way they understand and how to gently reinforce my boundaries. I feel like for once I’m actually putting myself first. This program gave me the tools to feel more confident in dating and selecting better men. Understanding how to evaluate dates, conversations, and behaviors is so important. I feel reborn almost. And I found a special person along the way. Things I keep in mind… you can never say the wrong thing to the right person and to reflect on how things made me feel not just my opinion. Thank you Anwar and Shoya. ❤️

The journey towards getting my guy began on our very first call. I was hanging on to a man who was ill-suited to me, simply because I thought there would be no one better if we broke up. This was a pattern that stood in my way for most of my adult life. Coach Anwar helped me to get over the scarcity mindset, break up with the ex, and allow space for something new. Much to my surprise, there were a lot of interesting men, even in my mid-forties, even in San Francisco! I met my beau in vivo, through a mutual friend. The GYG program provided an excellent framework to evaluate our budding relationship, and I found that my guy sailed through the funnel quite naturally. I feel at peace and excited about what is to come. Ladies, I’m a believer, the change begins within!

Thank you! There are many takeaways but I’ll share a couple things:
1. I learned to lean into my MCE (which was tough as first as a “perfect daughter” type) and this gave me the confidence to center myself in dating and not men.
2. I shared my boundaries and kept them. I was not flexible about them regardless of how cute he is nor where he is in the funnel or in medal status. This helped me to fairly evaluate their behavior and whether to move forward with them.

Anwar is great!! He tells you what you need to hear and gets you to think about things that are beyond the surface. He’s great with follow up too. He cares about his clients.

I would say :
Trust the process 🙌🏾
You will be scared, cry, discourage yourself, then you start to focus on yourself and detach from the rest.
And one day without realizing it : You GYG 🤭.
Thank you Anwar for your support ❤️

First, thank you so much because with you and The GYG community, the deep work wouldn’t have happened and I wouldn’t have know how to strategize and even what I deserved. When I finally met my guy, it was so clear that he was really my guy from our first conversation. The funnel works wonders! Please use the funnel ladies. Also, please know that there are men out there who will be willing to treat like the queen you are, respect you, be kind to you, be your cheerleader, etc. They are out there and I know sometimes it feels hopeless, but try to keep the faith. Also, I had to internalize for myself that I deserved to be treated well. That was some thing that I don’t think I ever had really accepted until I started the program last January. I also gave myself lots of breaks from the app when I felt burnt out. I felt like that was very necessary. I also recognized how I became more vulnerable on dates and it just became easier and easier to share my thoughts so that when I met my guy , and my guy was also the kind of guy that shared his thoughts, we just vibed. I would not have been ready for him a year ago. Sending all of you ladies and Anwar, so much love! My therapist always says that the world is overpopulated lol and there are billions of people in the world there are definitely more than several guys out there for you!

my biggest takeaway was I finally learned how to use my voice and set boundaries. When I had problems or issues, I would do so in ways that was demeaning not realizing that I was just in a hyper independent/survival mode, not actually living. I had a voice but I was using it all wrong. I had to sit with myself and get REAL! With all the therapy and tools that I’ve learned from this program, I had to do some rethinking, relearning, and reparenting. There were traumas and triggers holding me back and once I realized that I was sitting in victim mentality and that I should see myself as a survivor, it was like scales fell off my eyes. My guy is everything that I’ve been praying for and what I wrote down. I also realized that the guy that I thought was my type was my downfall. He’s nothing like what I go for but it was his energy, his kindness, his patience with me, how he gives me space to talk and listens to me, I’ve learned new things about me and most important, how I feel completely safe, vulnerable, and comfortable with him! For so long I’ve operated in my masculine and just micromanaged all of my relationships. He has truly given me space to be feminine which no one in my dating life has ever given me that. I can be vulnerable and set boundaries and he’s on the same page. I can’t wait to share everything with him!🥰😍♥️

First, thank you so much because with you and The GYG community, the deep work wouldn’t have happened and I wouldn’t have know how to strategize and even what I deserved. When I finally met my guy, it was so clear that he was really my guy from our first conversation. The funnel works wonders! Please use the funnel ladies. Also, please know that there are men out there who will be willing to treat like the queen you are, respect you, be kind to you, be your cheerleader, etc. They are out there and I know sometimes it feels hopeless, but try to keep the faith. Also, I had to internalize for myself that I deserved to be treated well. That was some thing that I don’t think I ever had really accepted until I started the program last January. I also gave myself lots of breaks from the app when I felt burnt out. I felt like that was very necessary. I also recognized how I became more vulnerable on dates and it just became easier and easier to share my thoughts so that when I met my guy , and my guy was also the kind of guy that shared his thoughts, we just vibed. I would not have been ready for him a year ago. Sending all of you ladies and Anwar, so much love! My therapist always says that the world is overpopulated lol and there are billions of people in the world there are definitely more than several guys out there for you!