so many.. but I took your advice to get serious about what I really wanted, to show vulnerability, and to take things slow.

there are so many takeaways. When I started this program, I hated dating. Learning how to funnel and practicing my boundaries helped me to stop approaching dating from a scarcity mindset. The first BOLs felt difficult, but once I got used to really being clear on what I was going to put up with, and what I wasn’t, I started being presented with better situations and men who could meet my standards. I also gained clarity on the type of man I want to be with long-term. I’ve definitely been guilty of dating for a prom date as opposed to a partner, but as I step into this new relationship, I feel really great about who he is, how he treats me, and our communication.  He respects my boundaries, he shows up with joy and consistency, he always wants to prioritize my happiness. I realize that, even though I was a main character in all the other areas of my life, I was playing small in my love life. Now I feel more myself. It’s also really healing to have a relationship that affirms me being the boldest version of me. I’m so grateful for this experience! Thanks everyone for your support.

First, thank you so much because with you and The GYG community, the deep work wouldn’t have happened and I wouldn’t have know how to strategize and even what I deserved. When I finally met my guy, it was so clear that he was really my guy from our first conversation. The funnel works wonders! Please use the funnel ladies. Also, please know that there are men out there who will be willing to treat like the queen you are, respect you, be kind to you, be your cheerleader, etc. They are out there and I know sometimes it feels hopeless, but try to keep the faith. Also, I had to internalize for myself that I deserved to be treated well. That was some thing that I don’t think I ever had really accepted until I started the program last January. I also gave myself lots of breaks from the app when I felt burnt out. I felt like that was very necessary. I also recognized how I became more vulnerable on dates and it just became easier and easier to share my thoughts so that when I met my guy , and my guy was also the kind of guy that shared his thoughts, we just vibed. I would not have been ready for him a year ago. Sending all of you ladies and Anwar, so much love! My therapist always says that the world is overpopulated lol and there are billions of people in the world there are definitely more than several guys out there for you!

1 practicing banter everywhere at the grocery store, online etc to get more comfortable 2. Boundaries is key. The right guy will respect your boundaries even if they don’t understand why. 3. Understanding that GYG is not really about getting the guy(it’s an added bonus) but practicing putting yourself first, communicating your feelings, and being in your feminine energy are lessons that I know will help in various aspects of my life

This program has been transformative for my self-discovery journey! Investing in yourself can truly open unexpected doors. The biggest takeaway for me has been the power of self-investment. Through this program, I learned to prioritize self-care, set healthy boundaries, and embrace my identity.Another key lesson is the importance of staying curious. Curiosity allows me to approach life with an open mind and a willingness to learn and grow. It helps me connect with others on a deeper level by fostering empathy and understanding. I’m so grateful for this program. The journey of self-discovery is never-ending, and I’m excited to see what new things I learn about myself and the world around me!

I’d say my biggest takeaways were the importance of boundaries, vulnerability, being able to identify and voice your needs and talk yo ish! lol. I’m still working on all 4 but I’m a lot farther along than when I started.
Thank you for the support along the way! 😁