Blindly listen to Coach. He knows a thing or two
Swipe right on like 85% or more (trust me. They won’t all make it)
Swipe on the apps and keep going even when it sucks. It feels like a lot of work but it’s worth it.

I’d say my biggest takeaways were the importance of boundaries, vulnerability, being able to identify and voice your needs and talk yo ish! lol. I’m still working on all 4 but I’m a lot farther along than when I started.
Thank you for the support along the way! 😁

My 1st takeaway, ‘Slow Burn, F the Spark’ was the light bulb moment for me. I didn’t realize that was anxiety. The inner child work helped me break that pattern. My relationship didn’t start with that spark but I feel it building and it’s wonderful. Now I can sit back, not worry and be in the moment.
My 2nd takeaway is knowing my Relationship Needs and how to look for that in my partner. He meets them and I’m sure that contributes to why I am so at ease.
My 3rd, and biggest, takeaway is Patience. The challenge of being over 50, and living in a small southern college town, made the search a bit slower as Anwar predicted. But moving my location around in the app, while also being honest in my profile intro of where I lived, helped weed out anyone that had an issue with distance.
This is by far the best dating program I’ve been a part of. Thanks Coach 🫶🏾

1) Boundaries are both to keep me safe and the road map to teach people how to best love me 2) I get everything I ask for. Continue to dream and ask big 3) Seek what my soul wants for me, not what society wants for me 4) I did the best I could on my life’s journey, in relationships, with the information I had. Forgive myself and the teachers who taught me. 5) Trust God and do everything Anwar says. They don’t miss 😂 6) The work is just beginning 😩

that my guy would likely not be what I envisioned (my vision board still has a pic of Marvin Winans).
The relationship needs and deadly dating patterns assessments were critical because it helped me understand why I was dating the way I was, why it wasn’t working and what needs my guy would need to meet.
Also, the inner work that we do is so important because it readies you for your partner.

there are so many takeaways. When I started this program, I hated dating. Learning how to funnel and practicing my boundaries helped me to stop approaching dating from a scarcity mindset. The first BOLs felt difficult, but once I got used to really being clear on what I was going to put up with, and what I wasn’t, I started being presented with better situations and men who could meet my standards. I also gained clarity on the type of man I want to be with long-term. I’ve definitely been guilty of dating for a prom date as opposed to a partner, but as I step into this new relationship, I feel really great about who he is, how he treats me, and our communication.  He respects my boundaries, he shows up with joy and consistency, he always wants to prioritize my happiness. I realize that, even though I was a main character in all the other areas of my life, I was playing small in my love life. Now I feel more myself. It’s also really healing to have a relationship that affirms me being the boldest version of me. I’m so grateful for this experience! Thanks everyone for your support.