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How to Date as a Plus-Sized Woman?

July 27, 2026

How to Date as a Plus-Sized Woman?

Hey girl,

I get a lot of questions as a dating coach about how to date as a plus-sized woman. And I gotta tell you, it’s pretty much the same way that any other-sized woman would date, except for two major things that I just want to keep you focused on so that you can keep yourself safe while dating.

So the first thing that I want to offer to you is that I want to make sure that if a guy is talking about your body at all before the first date, I need you to block him. I need you to unmatch him. I need you to let him go. Why? He’s buttering you up.

He knows that you may be a bit insecure about that, and so, ultimately, he is trying to make sure that you’re feeling good and comfortable so that he can potentially control you. Now, not every guy is like this, but the majority of guys are, especially as they engage with curvier women.

The second thing that I want to offer to you: if you’re on a date with a guy and he touches you at all, touches your body, I want you to leave. Why do I say that?

Because he is grooming you. He thinks that because you are plus size, you don’t care about your body and that he can do whatever he wants to it. And he can’t. A guy who is going to push your boundaries so early in the courtship process is a guy that you don’t want to be engaging with.

I hope this helps as you continue to engage in your love life, and if you need any more tips or anything like that, let me know. Do whatever you need to do to stay safe out in these streets, girl.

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