Why You’ve Been Called Intimidating in Dating

June 10, 2025

Hey girl, have you ever been called intimidating when you were talking to a guy or dating? Well I want to let you know that when they call you intimidating, it’s not that you’re actually intimidating. It’s that they feel like you are judgmental. And when I’m talking about judgmental, I’m talking about you making judgments about not just them, but even things outside of your interaction with these men (even making a stank face).

When you are coming off as judgmental, it is not going to make him feel safe to be emotionally vulnerable with you, which is where we actually make a deep connection. And I get it…if you have been raised in an environment where you’ve had an overly critical parent, especially your mom, then you are going to be judgmental as well.

You’re probably very harsh on yourself, and therefore you’re really harsh on these guys. Part of this self work in dating is allowing yourself to just accept and not judge. I had to do it. I teach my clients how to do it. If you want to learn how to do it, book a consultation call with me. I hope this helps.

Oh… they will also call you intimidating if you are or look expensive. Stay expensive, girl!

Men That Run Away

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but men are not running away from great women. They’re running away from the parts of themselves that they’re going to need to fix to actually deserve those great women. There’s a difference. It’s not about you, it’s about them.

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