Don’t Be A Nice Girl in Dating!

 Some people say that men like toxic women and that they get bored with nice women, and they go look for the toxic women. That is partly right. Like, nice girls are boring when it comes to dating, but you don’t have to be toxic to get your guy. You actually can be kind. Here’s […]

What is Your Flirting Style?

 So many people come to me and they’re like, I don’t know how to date, I don’t know how to flirt, and I’m like Girl, that’s ridiculous! Everyone knows how to flirt. Now, maybe you’re not flirting overtly, but everyone knows how to flirt, and I’m gonna give you the information for you to figure […]

Single Black Women – Non-Black Men Are Checking For Youuu!!!!

Hey girl, I have a special message for you. These non black men are checking for you! They’re checking for you. White, Hispanic, Indian. Uh, East Asian, Middle Eastern, they’re all checking for you. And I know you might think that they’re not, but they are. Sometimes we think that just because they weren’t checking […]

How to Date as a Plus-Sized Woman

Hey girl, I get a lot of questions as a dating coach about how to date as a plus-sized woman. And I gotta tell you, it’s pretty much the same way that any other-sized woman would date, except for two major things that I just want to keep you focused on so that you can […]

Top Online Dating Mistakes I See

Do you want to know some of the top online dating profile mistakes that I see as someone who has seen thousands of online dating profiles, both as a participant but also as a dating coach? This is one of the first things I do with all of my clients. We actually revise and transform […]

How Going For Your Type Can Hurt You

So I want to talk about how going for your type is actually hurting you in your dating and in your love life. And I know that sounds really crazy, but recently I read research about how your type is actually based on the archetype that has given you the most trauma. Now that is […]

Why You’ve Been Called Intimidating in Dating

Hey girl, have you ever been called intimidating when you were talking to a guy or dating? Well, I want to let you know that when they call you intimidating, it’s not that you’re actually intimidating. It’s that they feel like you are judgmental. And when I’m talking about judgmental, I’m talking about you making […]

How Do Women Play Themselves in Dating

 Do you want to know how women often play themselves in dating? Well, here’s what I know: if you’re a high-achieving woman, then you are gonna try to make things happen! You’re gonna be dating a lot, and you’re thinking “I’m dating a lot. I’m winning. I’m doing it.”  No, dating a lot is actually […]